Meh. Like many things in life it isn't one or the other. If you want to be an extreme outlier, you likely will need some extreme outlier events to occur - depe

Meh. Like many things in life it isn't one or the other. If you want to be an extreme outlier, you likely will need some extreme outlier events to occur - depending on what your desire is. For many of us, we're not able to influence many aspects and outcomes in that extreme. And so I like someone's quote: Life is what happens while you're planning other things.