Consider that your answers are incorrect / misremembered and the person you are asking remembers the events better. Or alternatively, with older family members,

Consider that your answers are incorrect / misremembered and the person you are asking remembers the events better. Or alternatively, with older family members, you should consider their memory may be lacking / failing due to age. You should weigh the value of someone coming after you specifically. If there is nothing of value (you aren't famous, you aren't rich, you don't have a job that would be valuable to exploit), you may be falling into a mental ditch due to persistent and consistent trauma (C-PTSD). Re-reading your post, I see you have already considered this so restating this may have been insensitive and I apologize. With that said, the first bit is true: if there is nothing of value to you, you are unlikely to be specifically targeted. The first thing to consider is leaving the country which I am going to guess you have considered and are unable to. The second thing to consider is to become entirely numb and disinterested in others including your family members. If you are concerned about being persuaded to do something, choose to never be persuaded. Under no circumstances will you give money or help regardless of the pleas you hear. Under no circumstances will you answer emails or unsolicted phone calls. If you go this route, ensure that you have the option for not loading images in your email togged on or the sender can receive notifications you opened the email.