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You seem to have the right gears in the brain so for you, it's a matter of using the right pronouns and names. The rest fits in naturally. That isn't the case
by blueflow 3y ago
You seem to have the right gears in the brain so for you, it's a matter of using the right pronouns and names. The rest fits in naturally.
That isn't the case for everyone, tho.
- jraph 3y agoI think what I suggest works for someone who would struggle with discerning between a male and a female (applicable only to binary people, it should be a non issue for non binary ones). Just use they. Try to remember the gender when told, but if this is still an issue, use they (for the names, I just find workarounds to not have to mention them when I can help it). (especially in English that seems more and more current; in French iel is becoming more common but still not very widespread) Surely people can understand and accept your struggle if you explain what's happening, though again, I never met someone like this knowingly, so I can't be sure how that works. You're too ahead of your time! :-)