I dislike "other people's solutions", because frequently they are shallow. It's sort of like internet relationship advice. It tends to lack nuance, like "if y

I dislike "other people's solutions", because frequently they are shallow. It's sort of like internet relationship advice. It tends to lack nuance, like "if you can't agree on a couch to buy, you should leave the relationship". > But maybe don’t lead with your advice. Unsolicited advice is a pretty big relationship friction generator.