Same here. To me it's not even some egregiously unpleasant interactions (there have been some of those, but they've been exceedingly rare). It's the constant ba

Same here. To me it's not even some egregiously unpleasant interactions (there have been some of those, but they've been exceedingly rare). It's the constant barrage of low-level entitlement of expecting work that individually isn't much but sums up to basically "make this project your main priority in life because my problem should be just as important to you as it is to me". I've started to think that there shouldn't be such a thing as a "main" codebase, but rather a network of clones that each introduce whatever fixes or features are important to them, and if they want changes from others they're free to integrate those themselves. Yes it's convenient for users to have a curated blessed distribution of a project, but at what cost?