I'd have talked to my CC provider. You might want to try OkCupid -- I've had decent luck with it. Never banned or even moderated, in over a decade of use. (But

I'd have talked to my CC provider. You might want to try OkCupid -- I've had decent luck with it. Never banned or even moderated, in over a decade of use. (But, still the search continues for a hot hacker GF ;))