The first thing to come to peace with is that no matter which ball you choose to let fall, it's gonna piss off someone and that someone is going to be very cert

The first thing to come to peace with is that no matter which ball you choose to let fall, it's gonna piss off someone and that someone is going to be very certain and very much in your face about the fact that from their point of view, you did the wrong thing. Get used to people telling you you're wrong.