You nailed it. When I was younger (my 20's on into my early 40's), I felt that I had to be in a relationship because it seemed the thing to do, and my libido ha

You nailed it. When I was younger (my 20's on into my early 40's), I felt that I had to be in a relationship because it seemed the thing to do, and my libido had not yet started to wane because of lower T. Now that I'm almost 50, I don't feel the overwhelming urge to be with somebody, and so a woman would have to blow me out of the water for me to give up my freedom and independence at this point.