That is fucking insane, pardon my French. People (male and female) need to take ownership of the difference between being uncomfortable and assaulted, because

That is fucking insane, pardon my French. People (male and female) need to take ownership of the difference between being uncomfortable and assaulted, because they're very different things. If I ask someone for their number, and they're not comfortable giving it, they say "No thanks." I hear that and I say "No problem! It was nice meeting you" and then forget about it (or leave, as appropriate to the situation). There's discomfort in life, because we're not all psychic. Attempting to normalized discomfort out of life is just going to end up in some weird fun house mirror world, where we're still doing the same things, just through proxies or at arm's length.