>The primary reason I chose "harmonious" over "obsessive" is that I don't want to be defined solely by software development. I have other passionate interests,

>The primary reason I chose "harmonious" over "obsessive" is that I don't want to be defined solely by software development. I have other passionate interests, such as philosophy, religion, philanthropy, business, public speaking, and reading. Good for OP. In my experience, people that have nothing else than software development going on in their lifes are rather annoying because they can't grasp that people can see value in things other than engineering and technology.