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I do think people tend to overblow things because of generational miscommunication. But... I'm 25, and won't be owning a home anytime soon. And not for lack of
by graypegg 3y ago
I do think people tend to overblow things because of generational miscommunication.
But... I'm 25, and won't be owning a home anytime soon. And not for lack of trying! In Canada, there's a first time homebuyers saving account, which I load up when I can. But food is quite expensive. And so is rent. I had to move (Toronto => Montréal) because I couldn't afford 2500$/m there.
I think people hear that, and attribute that the costs are directly related to me being "too picky" or overspending, unlike people in the past. But I was living in an area of Toronto a parent grew up in. In the city. Food has definitely gotten more expensive in my own lifetime. I tend to be pretty boring with meals I make, so seeing the normal grocery bill tick up from 40$ to 55~60$ has been a bit of a shock, despite buying the same things. I look at my home buyer savings account, and compare to the housing market around here in Montréal which is "good" compared to most of canada, and I see lots of 100k$ down, 750k$ units. Most of which will eat up my savings account with the down payment.
This is while working on a tech worker salary. That puts me in a lucky category, for which I'm infinitely grateful for, it's a lot more stressful for others.
I don't really want to pay a premium to not be homeless, just to fund the last generation's retirement, when I'm already paying their pension and healthcare. Why should I live here anymore? For the chance that maybe I can sell that home for more... to my children's generation?
- swatcoder 3y agoIf it means anything, that stuff looked daunting for me in my twenties too. But then a bubble burst and opportunity suddenly presented itself again. At that moment, I was actually luckier than many folk who had been a bit ahead of me, as they faced tremendous asset losses and I was just sitting on modest savings that had gone from "I'm fucked; this'll never grow fast enough" to "oh shit, I just bought a house!" overnight. For better or worse, it's really very hard to look too far into the future and know how things will work out for ourselves. Markets and societies aren't as stable or predictable as they're made out to be.
- graypegg 3y agoThat's a good point, it's easy to get stuck in the mindset that the current moment describes the future. At least life is interesting, I'll come along for the ride