You're being down voted but you're right. You need a support system to be able to model good behavior. If you barely have energy to make it to bed at night the

You're being down voted but you're right. You need a support system to be able to model good behavior. If you barely have energy to make it to bed at night then you definitely won't have energy to entertain a hyperactive toddler. Things like having grandparents help raise kids and spend time with them instead of turning on YouTube can help.