Wait, her husband was "married" to a guy for 10 years before they got married? How often does that happen? "Before his marriage to Ms. Pao, Mr. Fletcher lived

Wait, her husband was "married" to a guy for 10 years before they got married? How often does that happen? "Before his marriage to Ms. Pao, Mr. Fletcher lived in the Dakota with Hobart V. Folkes Jr., his partner of more than 10 years, according to a New York Times article in 2004 on Mr. Fletcher’s philanthropy."