> This is the result of my [intentional] teaching This is a key part. As a parent it’s hard to distinguish between parent guidance and the way the kid would be

> This is the result of my [intentional] teaching This is a key part. As a parent it’s hard to distinguish between parent guidance and the way the kid would be even without our intervention. In any case, Haidt’s argument is one of public health. The claim is that many/most parents don’t know how to provide that teaching even if they were of a mind to be intentional about parenting. > like somehow their child will magically manifest all the skills they need to deal . . . once they turn 18 There are so many things like this. Fortunately one’s offspring need not get cut off at 18. The challenge is progressively cutting apron strings so any particular threshold isn’t a cliff.