Great question, seems a bit difficult to gather a non-biased (if that exists) opinion online - be it on reddit or hackernews. I am debating moving from another

Great question, seems a bit difficult to gather a non-biased (if that exists) opinion online - be it on reddit or hackernews. I am debating moving from another country to it to be closer to executives on my company (L1 possibly green card), but still unsure, I make very good money where I am and would make very good money in Bay Area. But my life is already pretty settled on a big tech company.. From reading online, doesn't look like the best place to raise a family, and costs are obscene even for high paid employees. Traffic also feels like would be a big negative impact on my life if I moved.