wrt feeling, fully agree, I think it happens to most of us, if not all. But I believe you don't really have a say in the matter. I'm not sure you should be sup

wrt feeling, fully agree, I think it happens to most of us, if not all. But I believe you don't really have a say in the matter. I'm not sure you should be supposed to feel one way or another. You can only accept your feelings as is and others should accept how you feel too. I think especially when someone close die, it is well known each of us has their own personal / specific way of reacting. (of course you can prepare yourself to face expected situations to some extent; also of course, if you don't feel well you should seek help, especially if it lasts)