I grew up not far from Lancaster, a little further to the southern border with WV. My family came from southwestern PA and that's where I was born. My uncle mar

I grew up not far from Lancaster, a little further to the southern border with WV. My family came from southwestern PA and that's where I was born. My uncle married a southern woman (from the hills of northern GA) and her and my cousins really had a big problem with where we lived. They probably still do, we wouldn't know because we haven't spoken to them since my uncle died. There are some very deeply embedded feelings that remain in the south about "the war" and it can be a real jolt to be confronted with them.