This is why I sometimes wonder why I don't fit into that mindset at all. What happened to me that makes me not care about social media/networking and showing/p

This is why I sometimes wonder why I don't fit into that mindset at all. What happened to me that makes me not care about social media/networking and showing/proving/advertising to others what I have or do etc. The only validation I feel that I need is my own. So naturally it just makes it hard to understand other people's motivations in this when I am apparently missing that piece.