I guess I'm just surprised that people can be so awful and target you when you're vulnerable in your most intimate interactions and psychology. But I feel this

I guess I'm just surprised that people can be so awful and target you when you're vulnerable in your most intimate interactions and psychology. But I feel this whole line of questioning around "why surprising? why special?" sounds like it wants to dismiss or diminish how bad this is. Is that commenters like yourself and Festro are intending? Are you guys trying to normalize this? I think it's wrong to not be surprised. To hold onto morality and expect things should be different! Haha :)