> It's her life so I leave her alone, not my place to tell her what to do, and the emotional upheaval from her isn't worth it eithe For someone not from US, thi

> It's her life so I leave her alone, not my place to tell her what to do, and the emotional upheaval from her isn't worth it eithe For someone not from US, this comes across as weird. She is your sister, so why is the emotional upheaval not worth it? Who is it worth for? Why is not your place to tell her she is going down? If not for family, who will you do it for?