It's shocking to me that you think yourself even remotely powerful enough to have prevented his suicide. It "takes a village" to fulfill a human's social needs

It's shocking to me that you think yourself even remotely powerful enough to have prevented his suicide. It "takes a village" to fulfill a human's social needs. No one's brother can, on their own, fulfill all another's needs. His deep thoughts, his poop jokes, his pillow talk, his watercooler chat? We need whole communities for which no individual can substitute. You might do well to recognize your own social poverty. I'm sorry that you blame yourself. I tell my siblings not to blame themselves for my depression, isolation, and alienation. The fact is that these are statistical trends evidencing large, multidimensional social structures. They're unassailable by individuals. There was nothing "you" could have done.