Looking at this from a purely business point of view (which I guess a VC does), funding is not charity. Investing in someone who's about to start a family, male

Looking at this from a purely business point of view (which I guess a VC does), funding is not charity. Investing in someone who's about to start a family, male or female, sounds like a bad investment. So, is a VC a bad person for not investing in what could be a bad investment?