Thank you for your sincere reply.(and understanding) I'm right now not in that mental state, and in matter of fact in the process of quitting my job (well one

Thank you for your sincere reply.(and understanding) I'm right now not in that mental state, and in matter of fact in the process of quitting my job (well one reason of it) for the stress of keeping up. So the description in your last paragraph does ring true to my previous mentality, and something I had to work on for the past 4 years to correct. Still, when I see my newer coworkers in similar situation as I were, I know neither my experience nor your comment will reach them. But I believe your comment & my experience is probably more useful than the original articles (non-existent) advice.