Decades ago, I knew two couples doing the "she heads off to work, he stays at home" thing. Both husbands were doing essentially non-remote work at home (academ

Decades ago, I knew two couples doing the "she heads off to work, he stays at home" thing. Both husbands were doing essentially non-remote work at home (academia and a home-office business). And had multiple children to look after, at home, as part of the deal.