Or even better: not even organize by sex! First child, second child, etc. who cares about the sex or gender!? This problem appears in other related areas too.

Or even better: not even organize by sex! First child, second child, etc. who cares about the sex or gender!? This problem appears in other related areas too. Many people think that the right way to fix racisim is to make everyone obsessed about their racial identity. I get it; it all started because it's right to feel people proud and not ashamed of what they are, but I think going too far in that direction is backfiring greatly