Something can be hurtful and true. In fact, it's almost always the case that the most true and important things are hard to hear, hard to believe. When you can

Something can be hurtful and true. In fact, it's almost always the case that the most true and important things are hard to hear, hard to believe. When you can accept that your problems are your own responsibility (which is not the same as "fault"), you'll start to move forward. Yes, I'm speaking from experience. It's not easy.