I'm curious: do you maintain a popular open source project? The reason I ask is maybe the people who do are (in general) self-selected from the subgroup of peo

I'm curious: do you maintain a popular open source project? The reason I ask is maybe the people who do are (in general) self-selected from the subgroup of people who don't just say "sod off" when someone is rude or inconsiderate. If that was their stance in life, they would likely not put up with maintaining a popular open source project for very long.