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Honestly, the centerpiece of the article is this: > In plain, simple terms, you need to: do the uncomfortable thing. That’s what the advice boils down to, and
by anon373839 3y ago
Honestly, the centerpiece of the article is this:
> In plain, simple terms, you need to: do the uncomfortable thing.
That’s what the advice boils down to, and it works, and it’s not a hack. It’s growth. There are lots of sophisticated techniques to help you actually do “the thing,” but if your best judgment is that the thing is the right course of action, then you ultimately do need to violate your feeling that it is wrong/dangerous/scary and let your feelings catch up later.
- charles_f 3y agoI think that's fair, but there's also value in describing what is being stuck. It's important being able to identify feelings and put words on it. It also helps to see this is something other people go through, so as to feel less alone