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You don't know that this person has lots of work to do on themselves. These things are partially a matter of compatibility, putting yourself out there (which is
by anewhnaccount2 3y ago
You don't know that this person has lots of work to do on themselves. These things are partially a matter of compatibility, putting yourself out there (which is a thing you do rather than a thing you become), and yes, unfortunately, pure dumb luck.
- j45 3y agoBeing out there a lot is the dumb luck of human propagation. Seems pretty effective.
- bckr 3y agoI do know, because “what if women aren’t interested in you” is a question you don’t ask after a certain degree of development. I don’t know how long it will take to do this work. With a foundation of personal development and the right attitude, I bet you can go from “what if women aren’t interested in me” to successfully dating in under 6 weeks. If you need to learn how to develop yourself, it could take 6 months or more before you’re able to internalize the needed lessons.