> I don't think your paraphrasings are a fair representation of what I actually said. I think their paraphrasing was a fair representation. You want to have it

> I don't think your paraphrasings are a fair representation of what I actually said. I think their paraphrasing was a fair representation. You want to have it both ways. You said some incendiary victim-blaming thing, but now you're backpedaling with a "no no, you misunderstood".