Here's a free life lesson: sometimes there are things that victims could have done, or could do in the future, to avoid harm. Talking about those things is not

Here's a free life lesson: sometimes there are things that victims could have done, or could do in the future, to avoid harm. Talking about those things is not bad. Would you complain about victim blaming when a kid burns themselves on a hot pan and their parents tell them "well then don't do it again"?