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Look up "Peterson emotional intelligence" on YouTube to explore a slightly different take on emotional intelligence. Jordan Peterson argues that EQ doesn't exi
by achempion 3y ago
Look up "Peterson emotional intelligence" on YouTube to explore a slightly different take on emotional intelligence.
Jordan Peterson argues that EQ doesn't exist, and you can explore your personality with the Big 5 (mostly agreeableness).
I suggest also looking into "Nonviolent Communication by Marshall Rosenberg" as it closely matches the issue you described.
- azmodeus 3y agoI watched his video and personally feel emotional intelligence is often used as a proxy of communication skills in general with agreeable motifs when needed I feel there’s a strong skill aspect to it as the very emotionally intelligent people I came across had a lot of communication experience
- nemothekid 3y agoEQ isn't rigidly defined, Peterson has been right on that metric, but I think to say it doesn't exist (or to equate it agreeableness) isn't right either. IMO, someone with poor EQ probably also demonstrates poor theory of mind (and I personally put Peterson in this camp). High EQ, as a skill, is mostly charisma, and can be learned. Dale Carnegie is a good first step, but it also has to be practiced with other people (which is also why I find it hard to develop - you can practice math equations in solitude, but you it's very hard to practice charisma).
- 01HNNWZ0MV43FF 3y agoI wouldn't take advice from Peterson on agreeableness or emotional intelligence, he seems pretty unfriendly.