TBF, I don't think any of us really understood what it would take or were well prepared to become parents, even when getting into it on our terms. I don't know

TBF, I don't think any of us really understood what it would take or were well prepared to become parents, even when getting into it on our terms. I don't know if I'm a suitable person, but having a kid sure pushed me out of my boundaries pretty far, in every possible direction.