I was 24 and still in college. This thread is full of people saying "I was a mess" or "I wasn't mature enough". When we found out we were pregnant, I was work

I was 24 and still in college. This thread is full of people saying "I was a mess" or "I wasn't mature enough". When we found out we were pregnant, I was working at a gas station, my off hours spent riding around in a truck with my friends yelling things at people walking by on the street for reactions. There's maturity and stability. Now I'm "ahead" of many of those friends because I knew I needed to hurry up and get things done. Didn't have time to rage quit jobs. Didn't have time to sit around and make less because it was easier. So I agree with you. It tells me a lot about being responsible and mature. Most won't until they have to, and a kid has that effect.