There was a famous OKCupid post showing that men rated women on a bell curve (so the average was 5/10), but women rated men on average much lower. Everyone too

There was a famous OKCupid post showing that men rated women on a bell curve (so the average was 5/10), but women rated men on average much lower. Everyone took this to mean that women only want to date the top 20% of men. But it actually just meant women give out lower ratings and that's the only thing it meant.