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One kid is good enough so I don't regret getting one at 38. Letting grand parents help with child caring also carries a lot of downsides, especially if they liv
by hnthrowaway0328 3y ago
One kid is good enough so I don't regret getting one at 38. Letting grand parents help with child caring also carries a lot of downsides, especially if they live in.
- obruchez 3y ago"a lot of downsides" Can you give a few examples? I only see upsides.
- hnthrowaway0328 3y agoFor a start, they have their own ideas of raising kids. This is already an everyday headache.
- eYrKEC2 3y agoI read a statistic years ago that said that taking care of grandkids had a u-shaped mortality response. If you took care of them 2 days a weeks, it was optimal for mortality. More than that and you died younger. Less than that and you died younger. Yes, correlation is not causation, but that correlation is interesting.