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> I find the idea that people haven’t considered downsides of waiting to have kids to be grating personally Why do you care about what other people do? It's no
by throwway120385 3y ago
> I find the idea that people haven’t considered downsides of waiting to have kids to be grating personally
Why do you care about what other people do? It's not harming you.
- djur 3y agoWhy does anyone care about anyone else's opinions? I think it's pretty reasonable to take issue with others assuming that you made a particular decision because you hadn't fully thought through the consequences. Do you like having people second-guess your decisions, or does it annoy you?
- acover 3y agoI think being judged feels bad. If someone thinks you haven't considered the obvious it feels pretty insulting.
- jncfhnb 3y agoPublicly asserting incorrect reasons why people do things is in fact harmful due the social dialogue it creates.