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The economic situation of your mom having a great career is not the same as the economic situation of today; appeal to her hard work considered. People cannot a
by jncfhnb 3y ago
The economic situation of your mom having a great career is not the same as the economic situation of today; appeal to her hard work considered. People cannot afford to have kids like they used to. And yes, the older grandparents make this much worse because they’re now a costly liability rather than a useful child watcher.
I find the idea that people haven’t considered downsides of waiting to have kids to be grating personally
- throwway120385 3y ago> I find the idea that people haven’t considered downsides of waiting to have kids to be grating personally Why do you care about what other people do? It's not harming you.
- djur 3y agoWhy does anyone care about anyone else's opinions? I think it's pretty reasonable to take issue with others assuming that you made a particular decision because you hadn't fully thought through the consequences. Do you like having people second-guess your decisions, or does it annoy you?
- acover 3y agoI think being judged feels bad. If someone thinks you haven't considered the obvious it feels pretty insulting.
- jncfhnb 3y agoPublicly asserting incorrect reasons why people do things is in fact harmful due the social dialogue it creates.