If you can't keep your 14 year old off social media then your 14 year old is out of control, I had no such problem with my children. Their devices were locked d

If you can't keep your 14 year old off social media then your 14 year old is out of control, I had no such problem with my children. Their devices were locked down and they knew repercussions and grounding would be in order if they didn't listen. Once they hit 16 I didn't mind as much, and they had some SM freedom. They're both well adjusted adults now and in college, and I'm very proud of them. We're still close as ever, nothing bad happened as a result of them having guard rails as tweens and teens.