I see your argument in the sense that having kids and a relationship are a lot of work but they're also an inspiration. I have two children and I can say yes, y

I see your argument in the sense that having kids and a relationship are a lot of work but they're also an inspiration. I have two children and I can say yes, you can still be a creative fulfilled individual. But it's not as easy with the extra responsibility. And one has to be more focused.