Those are not upper class people; insisting everyone conform sounds very mid to me. If you go to punk shows, be punk. Recall: it is an attitude. (If you went

Those are not upper class people; insisting everyone conform sounds very mid to me. If you go to punk shows, be punk. Recall: it is an attitude. (If you went to a metal \m/ show, be punk anyway. Ever been to Wacken?) You may be amused by https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/U_and_non-U_English https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/U_and_non-U_English or https://dynomight.net/bourdieu/ https://dynomight.net/bourdieu/ Once you realise how much the desire for conformity stems from their own insecurities, it's easier to let all the petit bourgeois concerns roll off you like muddy water off a lotus.