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> Am I missing something here? A colleague of mine at a company I worked at, very intelligent, would often hurl this verbal weapon out at anyone delivering any
by vsnf 3y ago
> Am I missing something here?
A colleague of mine at a company I worked at, very intelligent, would often hurl this verbal weapon out at anyone delivering any kind of technical presentation. He was a very deep thinker and always had incisive insights. It was both a treat, and also terrifying to see him essentially interrogate the presenter. I only had to go before him one time, and it was both a test of one's knowledge of the material, and a measurement of one's emotional fortitude.
As for the question, the answer was almost always "No, you are missing nothing. The rest of us simply do not exist on the same level as you do".
- sublinear 3y agoI'm hoping when you say "interrogate the presenter" it led to some constructive collaboration and not just meaningless nitpicks or dick waving. I'm also hoping the people you worked with could tell the difference. If not, I hope you ran away from such a place. It's rare for someone truly that much smarter than everyone else to stick around without management siloing them into more focused work. Also, I hope you meant presentations about theoretical or engineering work and not some vague business goal. If it's the latter most of us reading this would have similarly ripped it apart (constructively), hence the need for management especially at bigger orgs. The best way to handle vague business goals is to present it to upper management and let the implementation details be filled in by their team if they agree to proceed with work.
- vsnf 3y agoHe was very strict, valuing correctness and rigidity, but entirely well meaning. It was never about showcasing superiority, nor was it ever nitpicking. Being in the spotlight though, it could certainly feel like an attack. And in some cases it was, but it was an attack on the idea, not on the person. He was ruthless, but rarely ever wrong.
- szszrk 3y agoUnfortunately one person is sufficient to spoil "a place". I am currently in this exact situation in my team. While I love everyone and really like what I do now, it became "the team vs that one guy". Which is ridiculous as he's supposed to be the pillar of the product. So here we are, the strongest part of the team became the biggest risk. Listening is a skill hard to master. Especially when you have no plans to try.
- sublinear 3y ago> Unfortunately one person is sufficient to spoil "a place". I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but it sounds like you have a lot of inexperienced people spoiling the place, not "that one guy". > So here we are, the strongest part of the team became the biggest risk. ... he's supposed to be the pillar of the product. The big risk is management dropping the ball not willing to coordinate your product better and depending too much on one person. If it really is such a long bridge to cross between your SME and everyone else you have to accept that the product will be as bad as the dumbest person on your team. The product has to be well understood by everyone, not just one person. You might lose your only talent here if you can't hire better people to fill in the rest of the team. > I love everyone and really like what I do now Not to be too harsh but this should be the lowest priority business goal. Joy at work is just one tactic to retain employees. If your people can't get acceptable work done in the first place you can't expect anyone to be happy. How can I say this more bluntly? Don't abuse your smartest people to keep lesser people employed and happy?
- szszrk 3y ago> How can I say this more bluntly? Don't abuse your smartest people to keep lesser people employed and happy? There is absolutely nothing in situation described by me, that fits this sentence. I'd like to explain that but you (?) already gave downvote to my comment, so it will likely just make me feel worse that I wrote a wall of text that no one will read. I actually still agree with points you made, as a general advise.
- sublinear 3y agoI can't downvote replies and it's possible I projected some of my more frustrating experiences onto your situation. If you don't have much control over hiring, company culture, etc. it wasn't directed at you, but someone definitely does.
- jmholla 3y ago> Not to be too harsh but this should be the lowest priority business goal. Joy at work is just one tactic to retain employees. I whole heartedly disagree. Happiness is more than just about retention. It's also about efficacy of your employees. Happy employees do better work and produce more.
- sevagh 3y agoNo amount of cleverness should "earn" one the right to terrorize their coworkers.
- faeriechangling 3y agoWell there's should and there's does