That's what I mean by those who can't carry the responsibility, cases like yours are a different matter. What I speak of are two consenting adults having sex a

That's what I mean by those who can't carry the responsibility, cases like yours are a different matter. What I speak of are two consenting adults having sex and making a child intentionally or otherwise. If those parents subsequently don't want to pay child support or otherwise don't want to own up to their acts, they are worthless people and the child deserves better.