Yeah it just doesn't add up on the face of it. Having a good marriage does not entail spending 8 hours straight with your spouse every day of the week, no kids,

Yeah it just doesn't add up on the face of it. Having a good marriage does not entail spending 8 hours straight with your spouse every day of the week, no kids, no hobbies. That's nuts. It makes about as much sense as saying that having a successful career requires 20 hours per day and is therefore impossible unless you sleep 4 hours a night. You can say that, but it's just untrue on the face of it, unless you redefine "successful" to mean "something you spend at least 20 hours per day on."