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There's less people meeting at bars and clubs too, especially among the younger generations who either don't drink or can't afford to. Apparently women don't l
by cedws 3y ago
There's less people meeting at bars and clubs too, especially among the younger generations who either don't drink or can't afford to.
Apparently women don't like being approached anymore either.
As a single person I am very confused about how this is all supposed to work.
- CuriouslyC 3y agoThe percentage of women who respond to a direct approach has been pretty bad for a while, you really have to be smooth to make it work. The "meet cute" angle is easier - i.e. fortuitously bumping into a woman in some way or striking up a conversation spontaneously about shared circumstances. Most women are open to that sort of meeting if it feels natural, but then you have to have some sort of routine for "spontaneously" striking up a conversation so it's not without its drawbacks.