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Why do you think that? I mean I haven't dated in like 15 years, but I had dates every week, and I'm pretty average.
by afpx 3y ago
Why do you think that? I mean I haven't dated in like 15 years, but I had dates every week, and I'm pretty average.
- alephnerd 3y agoBecause I have lived, worked, and dated in both cities in the past Decade+. I am an average looking PoC man and I've done fine, as have my peers of all races. Also, assuming statistics implied ability to get laid is plain dumb, especially in a metro like the DMV which has a very robust lesbian community (according to my lesbian friends, it's their version of what SF is for Gay Men) Furthermore, assuming that relationships or sex are a numbers game imply that deep down, you assume that you deserve getting sex or a relationship. This removes the onus on the individual to change themselves.
- afpx 3y agoDoesn't make much sense, sorry. Plus who said anything about sex?