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Wait..... A stranger (out of the goodness of their heart) lets you in on their secret technique for making £MILLIONS, and you didn't immediately tell them to b

by GJim 3y ago

Wait..... A stranger (out of the goodness of their heart) lets you in on their secret technique for making £MILLIONS, and you didn't immediately tell them to bugger off?

ryandrake 3y ago
Yea that’s what I don’t get. I almost can see falling for the “Microsoft tech support” and “I am the IRS” and “Your nephew needs bail money” scams, as they all sound like emergencies and I can see people setting aside common sense to handle an emergency. At least until the iTunes Gift Cards take the stage. LOL. But “hello Internet Stranger I know how you can invest and make $millions?” LOL how does that make any sense? Put yourself in the scammer’s shoes: you found a way to double your money. Are you really going to tell random people on the internet how to do it? Obviously not.
- Turing_Machine 3y ago
  > At least until the iTunes Gift Cards take the stage. LOL. Yes, I'm amused by those too. In my experience, the IRS has always wanted US dollars. But maybe Apple gift cards became legal tender without us noticing? LOL indeed.
  - bombcar 3y ago
    Scammers target people who will fall for it; immigrants are already used to using gift cards for various things and reasons, so they are not as likely to immediately recognize it as a scam. Which is why all gift card racks now have the "IRS IS NOT ASKING YOU FOR THIS GIFT CARD" signs on them; still not good enough.
    - ryandrake 3y ago
      I guess another, more controversial regulatory path we could go down is: Does the world really need gift cards? Do their few, anachronistic legit use cases outweigh the scam use cases? I personally believe gift cards are an overall net negative, even just considering the amount of plastic and packaging wasted on them, but add on the scam aspect, and we have to ask: should gift cards even be a thing?
      - bombcar 3y ago
        If not gift cards, something else. They're just currently the most effective "give me some numbers over the phone and now I have money" currently available. It used to be Western Union, but it would move to something else. Cash, money orders, PayPal, Zelle, any number of things have been used and will be used.
        ryandrake 3y ago
        You’re absolutely right and I can tell you’ve given this topic much more thought than I have. Thanks!
      - erehweb 3y ago
        https://www.cbsnews.com/news/gift-card-scam-get-your-money-back/ https://www.cbsnews.com/news/gift-card-scam-get-your-money-b... says that gift card fraud was c. $200M in 2022, and that people have about $20 billion in unspent gift cards. Flow vs stock, but it seems like the majority of usage is legit. (Though maybe not for particular businesses).
      - Turing_Machine 3y ago
        > Do their few, anachronistic legit use cases outweigh the scam use cases? Anachronistic? I still give these as small gifts all the time, and every grocery or department store I go in seems to have a rack of them at the checkout stand.
    - 5040 3y ago
      Often, they won't call them gift cards. They'll use things like "verification card." Newly arrived immigrants are often hopelessly confused already. They'll fall for fake job offers. These "jobs" will eventually require them to get gift cards. It can escalate into blackmail. The victim will have handed over all sorts of private information as part of the job application/interview.
- DharmaPolice 3y ago
  You're right of course but the thing is - it's not "Hello, how would you like to make millions" - It's "Hello, how are you?" followed by a period of building the person's trust. And then it's an incidental "Oh btw, did I mention I'm involved in this great investment club". At this point a gullible person is seeing this other person as their friend (or more, a lot of people are lonely). Wouldn't you share your investment strategy with your friend?
  - ryandrake 3y ago
    Yea I think that also needs to be part of The Talk with your elderly relatives, too: Random online people are not looking to make friends with you, no matter how friendly they seem, they are taking advantage of your loneliness. I can see how the conversation could be unpleasant and you need to be delicate and respectful when telling it.
breadwinner 3y ago
They are only a stranger on the first day, right? After weeks of chatting, you feel like you know them. They take their time, and only into the second or third week do they offer to share their wealth making technique.
bombcar 3y ago
They send you a text "Hey, how's it going? Remember Paris?" And you reply "new phone who dis" and they apologize and chat about unrelated things for weeks becoming your friend. This is why any text from an unknown number should be "block and report as spam".
- mrguyorama 3y ago
  >And you reply "new phone who dis" and they apologize and chat about unrelated things for weeks becoming your friend. Or maybe, just maybe, you should rethink how much you actually KNOW someone who you've merely been texting with for a few weeks. I wouldn't trust my closest friend giving me advice about making money, because his advice was an MLM. I sure as fuck am not taking financial advice from someone I have never met face to face. Even if they are legitimately letting me in on a way to make free money, it's probably unethical at best.

by GJim 3y ago

Wait..... A stranger (out of the goodness of their heart) lets you in on their secret technique for making £MILLIONS, and you didn't immediately tell them to bugger off?

ryandrake 3y ago

Yea that’s what I don’t get. I almost can see falling for the “Microsoft tech support” and “I am the IRS” and “Your nephew needs bail money” scams, as they all sound like emergencies and I can see people setting aside common sense to handle an emergency. At least until the iTunes Gift Cards take the stage. LOL. But “hello Internet Stranger I know how you can invest and make $millions?” LOL how does that make any sense? Put yourself in the scammer’s shoes: you found a way to double your money. Are you really going to tell random people on the internet how to do it? Obviously not.

Turing_Machine 3y ago
> At least until the iTunes Gift Cards take the stage. LOL. Yes, I'm amused by those too. In my experience, the IRS has always wanted US dollars. But maybe Apple gift cards became legal tender without us noticing? LOL indeed.
- bombcar 3y ago
  Scammers target people who will fall for it; immigrants are already used to using gift cards for various things and reasons, so they are not as likely to immediately recognize it as a scam. Which is why all gift card racks now have the "IRS IS NOT ASKING YOU FOR THIS GIFT CARD" signs on them; still not good enough.
  - ryandrake 3y ago
    I guess another, more controversial regulatory path we could go down is: Does the world really need gift cards? Do their few, anachronistic legit use cases outweigh the scam use cases? I personally believe gift cards are an overall net negative, even just considering the amount of plastic and packaging wasted on them, but add on the scam aspect, and we have to ask: should gift cards even be a thing?
    - bombcar 3y ago
      If not gift cards, something else. They're just currently the most effective "give me some numbers over the phone and now I have money" currently available. It used to be Western Union, but it would move to something else. Cash, money orders, PayPal, Zelle, any number of things have been used and will be used.
      - ryandrake 3y ago
        You’re absolutely right and I can tell you’ve given this topic much more thought than I have. Thanks!
    - erehweb 3y ago
      https://www.cbsnews.com/news/gift-card-scam-get-your-money-back/ https://www.cbsnews.com/news/gift-card-scam-get-your-money-b... says that gift card fraud was c. $200M in 2022, and that people have about $20 billion in unspent gift cards. Flow vs stock, but it seems like the majority of usage is legit. (Though maybe not for particular businesses).
    - Turing_Machine 3y ago
      > Do their few, anachronistic legit use cases outweigh the scam use cases? Anachronistic? I still give these as small gifts all the time, and every grocery or department store I go in seems to have a rack of them at the checkout stand.
  - 5040 3y ago
    Often, they won't call them gift cards. They'll use things like "verification card." Newly arrived immigrants are often hopelessly confused already. They'll fall for fake job offers. These "jobs" will eventually require them to get gift cards. It can escalate into blackmail. The victim will have handed over all sorts of private information as part of the job application/interview.
DharmaPolice 3y ago
You're right of course but the thing is - it's not "Hello, how would you like to make millions" - It's "Hello, how are you?" followed by a period of building the person's trust. And then it's an incidental "Oh btw, did I mention I'm involved in this great investment club". At this point a gullible person is seeing this other person as their friend (or more, a lot of people are lonely). Wouldn't you share your investment strategy with your friend?
- ryandrake 3y ago
  Yea I think that also needs to be part of The Talk with your elderly relatives, too: Random online people are not looking to make friends with you, no matter how friendly they seem, they are taking advantage of your loneliness. I can see how the conversation could be unpleasant and you need to be delicate and respectful when telling it.

breadwinner 3y ago

They are only a stranger on the first day, right? After weeks of chatting, you feel like you know them. They take their time, and only into the second or third week do they offer to share their wealth making technique.

bombcar 3y ago

They send you a text "Hey, how's it going? Remember Paris?" And you reply "new phone who dis" and they apologize and chat about unrelated things for weeks becoming your friend. This is why any text from an unknown number should be "block and report as spam".

mrguyorama 3y ago
>And you reply "new phone who dis" and they apologize and chat about unrelated things for weeks becoming your friend. Or maybe, just maybe, you should rethink how much you actually KNOW someone who you've merely been texting with for a few weeks. I wouldn't trust my closest friend giving me advice about making money, because his advice was an MLM. I sure as fuck am not taking financial advice from someone I have never met face to face. Even if they are legitimately letting me in on a way to make free money, it's probably unethical at best.