See your sibling comment: > A child answers the existentialist "why I'm here? what's the point?" question on a primal, fundamental level. The child needs you,

See your sibling comment: > A child answers the existentialist "why I'm here? what's the point?" question on a primal, fundamental level. The child needs you, your purpose is to care for it. A child is not a distraction from something else, they become your entire purpose.