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I'm going to be a downer but this is honestly how I see the situation. Most jobs that can reliably support you nowadays are very boring, but you are more or les
by silent_cal 3y ago
I'm going to be a downer but this is honestly how I see the situation. Most jobs that can reliably support you nowadays are very boring, but you are more or less stuck with them because it's simply becoming too expensive to live otherwise, especially if you want a family someday.
I remember meeting an old artist at college who had gone to NYC for training in his youth. He explained how such an adventure was impossible nowadays, because it's just not possible to afford living in NYC as a young person without money.
I won't recommend that you don't pursue your passion, but I will say that if you want to do that, you must be excellent at it, meaning at least in the top 1% of people doing it, if you want to survive financially. That's certainly possible if you put the work in, because most people don't. But you have to be prepared for that.
So if you want to do something actually cool, like a college professor or researcher or artist or filmmaker, get ready to work consistently towards excellence, otherwise you won't be happy with the results. Otherwise, go into the most tolerable of the money-making enterprises, like engineering, IT or health care.
- badpun 3y ago> I remember meeting an old artist at college who had gone to NYC for training in his youth. He explained how such an adventure was impossible nowadays, because it's just not possible to afford living in NYC as a young person without money. Nowadays, there are plenty other affordable places to train. It's not NYC or nothing.
- ProllyInfamous 3y agoFor several years around 2010, I lived in the SF Bay Area for ~$1200/month. I had a (now long-lost) friend near Dolores Park, who maintained a rent-controlled 3 bedroom for $1200/month, which he then subletted the other two rooms. Sometimes, I wonder if he's still there =P So much happier to not be that impoverished, but I had a great time wheelin' & dealin' the /bayarea.
- silent_cal 3y agoYes that's true, I was moreso trying to make a point about how much the cost of living has changed in general.