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> Then you wake up, drive to work or sit inside and work remotely, then do it all over again. The mass preponderance of work from home is going to cause major

> Then you wake up, drive to work or sit inside and work remotely, then do it all over again. The mass preponderance of work from home is going to cause major social issues. Most Americans have very little family and social ties, so this just makes things worse. The COVID lockdowns were a huge mistake and have greatly damaged the social fabric of the country

Gigachad 3y ago
This is gonna upset people on this site but you are 100% right. We already lost the third space, now we are losing the second one as well. The average person in 20 years might never leave home. Remote education, remote work, home deliveries for food and anything you need. It’ll be an epidemic of Agoraphobia.
- NegativeLatency 3y ago
  Yeah it’s a bit troubling. My hope is that it causes us to look at what we can do to make our cities more encouraging to social interaction. Fill in the missing middle housing, make them more human centric, etc. It’s going to take at least a generation for that to happen though.
  - Gigachad 3y ago
    I wish that would happen, but honestly I see it all getting progressively worse. Offices cost lots of money so there is a pressure to reduce them. Universities are getting rid of in person lectures and classes to replace them with cheaper standardized online content. Social media, VR, and gaming is becoming increasingly engaging. And the cost of going out and doing things in person is becoming increasingly prohibitive. Local governments are becoming increasingly poor and unable to sustain unnecessary facilities like libraries and free hang out spaces. I don't think this is a problem the free market can solve since sense of community and socialization doesn't generate revenue efficiently. We need to start using tax money to build more free public spaces and public transport to get people connected.
    - WalterBright 3y ago
      There was much more of a sense of community when the government was a lot smaller and the market was much free'er.
      - The_Colonel 3y ago
        Is it just historical correlation or do you imply casuation?
      - Kye 3y ago
        I refer you to the pirates/average global temperature graph.
    - anon291 3y ago
      > We need to start using tax money to build more free public spaces and public transport to get people connected. All the original public transit projects (including my own streetcar suburb and corresponding streetcar), were privately funded. What governments need to do is make it clear that they will expedite permits for these projects and not put up roadblocks or attempt to extract profit from the investors.
supriyo-biswas 3y ago
This comment is being undeservedly downvoted. In-office work has always been an important way to bootstrap your social graph, as are other in-person group activities such as schooling and college. Of course, some people may not like the commute and prefer in-person work, but any choice has tradeoffs, and the tradeoff in this case is that you usually end up knowing very few people other than your spouse and children which leads to loneliness in mid-life. Relying on school and college friends doesn’t work as they would have also moved on due to other responsibilities and relocated elsewhere, and due to the lack of shared context that is required to rejuvenate said friendships.
- anon291 3y ago
  Yeah I figured it would. WFH makes sense for established workers. For those new graduates... It's toxic and a huge set back. I was a hiring manager during COVID... We just stopped hiring new grads. How would we on board them? How would I provide the guidance they needed? Even if my new hires would be in another office, I'd still be able to get someone there to help them in person. Remote? Good luck. Established engineers have enough issues with that.
  - em-bee 3y ago
    i am in that exact situation right now. i am trying to hire locals in a somewhat remote work location. most candidates want to work remote. even for a senior it took us a few hours of working face to face before i felt comfortable letting them work remotely. for a junior i can't imagine remote work until they are fully onboarded and able to work independently which may take a few weeks to a few months of time.
  - ryandrake 3y ago
    I think the downvotes are purely from the snipe at COVID restrictions, since it is sadly still a hot button topic. My initial urge was to downvote but I undid it and will keep my input neutral there because it’s just not on topic. I personally think that the sudden need to accept remote work, delivery services, and isolating at home opened up a mode of living that until now has been inaccessible to those of us who actually like that sort of thing. Before, socializing with strangers simply couldn’t be avoided, because there was no other realistic way to live, besides going off into the wilderness and setting the entirety of civilization aside. We now have more options and that’s great! People who like the old way can still commute into the office, go to their pub, dine out in person, and so on, but now, the option has opened up for people who don’t want to do that, and I don’t think there is anything wrong with that. One size doesn’t fit all. I now have the option to stay in my house for a month+ and not see another human being if I want, and still earn a living, enjoy modern life, conveniences, shopping, dining… not really possible as recently as 2019. It’s not for everyone but to me it’s better than the old way.
robocat 3y ago
Often the sort of jobs you can do from home are not that social to start with. While working in software at an office I definitely noticed that working with a PC all day was definitely not social. And some of my co-workers have been anti-social or just not socialised. Some offices were oppressive: just clicks and headphones.
- anon291 3y ago
  > just clicks and headphones. As a SW engineer, I'm just going to say that when I read things like this, it explains so much about the anti-socialness of all my colleagues. This is such an easy problem to fix. If your office is not social enough, you stand up, go to your neighbor's desk / cubicle and say 'Good morning, how are you doing today? What are you working on?'. People love to talk if you let them
red-iron-pine 3y ago
> Most Americans have very little family and social ties citation needed. like, speak for yourself, mon ami.

Gigachad 3y ago

This is gonna upset people on this site but you are 100% right. We already lost the third space, now we are losing the second one as well. The average person in 20 years might never leave home. Remote education, remote work, home deliveries for food and anything you need. It’ll be an epidemic of Agoraphobia.

NegativeLatency 3y ago
Yeah it’s a bit troubling. My hope is that it causes us to look at what we can do to make our cities more encouraging to social interaction. Fill in the missing middle housing, make them more human centric, etc. It’s going to take at least a generation for that to happen though.
- Gigachad 3y ago
  I wish that would happen, but honestly I see it all getting progressively worse. Offices cost lots of money so there is a pressure to reduce them. Universities are getting rid of in person lectures and classes to replace them with cheaper standardized online content. Social media, VR, and gaming is becoming increasingly engaging. And the cost of going out and doing things in person is becoming increasingly prohibitive. Local governments are becoming increasingly poor and unable to sustain unnecessary facilities like libraries and free hang out spaces. I don't think this is a problem the free market can solve since sense of community and socialization doesn't generate revenue efficiently. We need to start using tax money to build more free public spaces and public transport to get people connected.
  - WalterBright 3y ago
    There was much more of a sense of community when the government was a lot smaller and the market was much free'er.
    - The_Colonel 3y ago
      Is it just historical correlation or do you imply casuation?
    - Kye 3y ago
      I refer you to the pirates/average global temperature graph.
  - anon291 3y ago
    > We need to start using tax money to build more free public spaces and public transport to get people connected. All the original public transit projects (including my own streetcar suburb and corresponding streetcar), were privately funded. What governments need to do is make it clear that they will expedite permits for these projects and not put up roadblocks or attempt to extract profit from the investors.

supriyo-biswas 3y ago

This comment is being undeservedly downvoted. In-office work has always been an important way to bootstrap your social graph, as are other in-person group activities such as schooling and college. Of course, some people may not like the commute and prefer in-person work, but any choice has tradeoffs, and the tradeoff in this case is that you usually end up knowing very few people other than your spouse and children which leads to loneliness in mid-life. Relying on school and college friends doesn’t work as they would have also moved on due to other responsibilities and relocated elsewhere, and due to the lack of shared context that is required to rejuvenate said friendships.

anon291 3y ago
Yeah I figured it would. WFH makes sense for established workers. For those new graduates... It's toxic and a huge set back. I was a hiring manager during COVID... We just stopped hiring new grads. How would we on board them? How would I provide the guidance they needed? Even if my new hires would be in another office, I'd still be able to get someone there to help them in person. Remote? Good luck. Established engineers have enough issues with that.
- em-bee 3y ago
  i am in that exact situation right now. i am trying to hire locals in a somewhat remote work location. most candidates want to work remote. even for a senior it took us a few hours of working face to face before i felt comfortable letting them work remotely. for a junior i can't imagine remote work until they are fully onboarded and able to work independently which may take a few weeks to a few months of time.
- ryandrake 3y ago
  I think the downvotes are purely from the snipe at COVID restrictions, since it is sadly still a hot button topic. My initial urge was to downvote but I undid it and will keep my input neutral there because it’s just not on topic. I personally think that the sudden need to accept remote work, delivery services, and isolating at home opened up a mode of living that until now has been inaccessible to those of us who actually like that sort of thing. Before, socializing with strangers simply couldn’t be avoided, because there was no other realistic way to live, besides going off into the wilderness and setting the entirety of civilization aside. We now have more options and that’s great! People who like the old way can still commute into the office, go to their pub, dine out in person, and so on, but now, the option has opened up for people who don’t want to do that, and I don’t think there is anything wrong with that. One size doesn’t fit all. I now have the option to stay in my house for a month+ and not see another human being if I want, and still earn a living, enjoy modern life, conveniences, shopping, dining… not really possible as recently as 2019. It’s not for everyone but to me it’s better than the old way.

robocat 3y ago

Often the sort of jobs you can do from home are not that social to start with. While working in software at an office I definitely noticed that working with a PC all day was definitely not social. And some of my co-workers have been anti-social or just not socialised. Some offices were oppressive: just clicks and headphones.

anon291 3y ago
> just clicks and headphones. As a SW engineer, I'm just going to say that when I read things like this, it explains so much about the anti-socialness of all my colleagues. This is such an easy problem to fix. If your office is not social enough, you stand up, go to your neighbor's desk / cubicle and say 'Good morning, how are you doing today? What are you working on?'. People love to talk if you let them

red-iron-pine 3y ago

> Most Americans have very little family and social ties citation needed. like, speak for yourself, mon ami.